I'm not only click for unity

"O mankind, We created you from a single pair of male and female, and made you into nations and tribes, So that you might know each other..." [49:13]

* credit to Ayat for the above citation of al-hujurat

It was totally silent when i woke up just now, only the wind did the talking. There, the remote controller. I changed the channel to Al-Hijrah, "Ok, drama Melayu". No. No. My reaction originally like this "Ok, Adi Putra is here", he was performing the solah. Ahaa! I kept my eyes on, eventhough I was a bit unconscious. It's not a drama, it's a 'telenovela' or something like short film. I dunno what people called the one with only one episode, basically it's a story on TV. [noob!]. Knowing Al-Hijrah Channel only put drama or short film with all the actresses wearing hijab was quite surprising. It's true. So far I can say it's true.  

Ok, moving further to the line of the story. I think it's a story of a good and well mannered young man with a strong Muslim character which is Adi Putra and his wife that has a past that I assumed not really match the character in Adi. She has an untold 'dark ages story' with other man called Fendi.  But, she finally came to be the real Muslim after getting married with Adi. I only watched it for about half an hour before it came to the end. So I guessed, Adi was not really happy with the fact that his wife had something with Fendi and he even doubted of the child his wife was carrying. To make it short, unfortunately his wife had been robbed by Fendi himself until she lost her child. On his way to the hospital, Adi stopped by the road side because there was an accident, it was Fendi lying on the road. While Adi was showing his attention to him, Fendi told him that the baby was Adi's. After that, Adi had come to the real fact that he loves his wife so much without knowing the truth that he has lost his child. The End.

Anybody wanna guess what I am thinking right now? Yeah, it's about trust. The one we love might gone, and the one we want might disappear. I remember what Islamic thinking ever quoted before :

Don't wait for the flowers to be brought to us, let's plant our own garden.

I am now wide awake. Was it a nice thing to ponder? Definitely yes for me. Both side have to work into each other. It's not a matter who will win. It's a matter of happiness. When we have..oh not 'we'. Should be 'when you' have someone you call your other half. It shouldn't be that way, living with no trust on each other. Or maybe the condition wasn't really supporting in real fact of our dreamed life. But, who knows.

One tip for those willing to put someone's stress down. Go and buy something that would trigger his feeling. Like what my sister and me did. we bought something like this :

  

Does the 'Angry Bird' looks annoyed to you? Me too =P

Have a clearer view.

Replied back to the one wearing those stuff, "You will get prettier when you get angry, so stay like that". I don't know about others, but I personally settling down when I heard those line. "How come I get prettier when i am mad?" Then I started laughing. Ok, no more Angry Akmar. But, the best way, having wudu' and perform the solah. Tell everything we wanted to tell to Him. He is the best listener.

I was talking like i am the expert in love-hate matters. Most of the people have to cope with being dumped at some point in life, I am not trying to come out with how to get over it, but i am trying to feel that worst feeling too. As far as I could remember, I was the one crying like baby when I got the sense of being dumped. Have you ever feel like being dumped but you are not even dating someone? Another thing to think about, how the feeling was about. But, the story above that I was telling just now is about a married couple whom about to have their own child, they even feel the same, or maybe worst. Feel like being betrayed? Or hating the rival that suddenly come up?

So, friend. Be strong and make dua' for your love one. I am no longer take this as my food, but I feel like writing to stabilize my head about everything I used to face over and over like such problems that my friends have. What theirs would be mine as well. I hope it's getting better. Again..don't wait for the flowers to be brought to us.

Be blessed.