Mangsa dan Pemangsa

I started my GL class today [ haha. it's been 2 weeks ago] with an amazed wide opening eye. There are only three Malay girls, three Muslim girls to be exact word i would say among 20 plus number of students in that class. Alah, macam tak biasa pulak saya nih. Phewwh. Interesting! Other class might have an intro session, but we already started our Research Topic discussion, the area of research study with a seemed-really-nice lecturer, Rosemary Jane.One after one topic been written on the board. After that, one by one were line-crossed. I'm glad my topic is fine.  However, we were asked to find one topic for that teamwork project. A topic among the selected one. OK, we chose 'CRIME'. a lot more to talk about.

Na..na..i'm not writing about this! Aiyakk.. get a grib.fhew! OK.  back to the subject matter.

It's happened to discussed one of the topic written on the board which is "Muslim Women Versus European Women". Since, my friend and me were the only Muslim in the circle, it happened to be the only target person to respon the question about HIJAB.

Why do wear HIJAB?

Are you wearing it all the time?

Are you comfortable with your HIJAB?

everything gone real smooth and fine. alhamdulillah

"This is quite personal, you might not answer it if you want."

"What do you think about those Muslim Girls that are not wearing HIJAB? 

Are they not really faithful enough?"

[Ouch, Stuck!! Ya Allah, help us]

We said, we cannot judge people by it's cover. They might have their own reason why they are not doing so. You better ask them because we cannot simply claim people just like that.

Why people tend to ask those who DID NOT instead of asking those who DID?? 

Hurmm.. Ape yang saya boleh conclude' kan daripada situasi ni rasanya adalah tentang mangsa dan pemangsa. Allah lebih mengetahui kebenaran di sebalik ini. Baik buruk seseorang dalam tafsirannya, kuat atau tidak seseorang dalam beragama, ikhlas atau tidak seseorang dalam ibadah. Itu bukanlah urusan manusia lain untuk meneliti setiap satu. Kita hanya mampu memberi ingatan, menumpangkan kekuatan dan berganding bahu mencari jalan yang benar.

Mari lihat analogy yang saya kira sangat menarik untuk menjelaskan situasi mangsa dan pemangsa. hee.

Dalam satu contoh situasi. Terdapat Muslim A dan Muslim B.

Tiba-tiba, Muslim B membaling batu ke arah Muslim A.

Kemudian, orang ramai menjadi hairan akan perkara tersebut. Lantas melontarkan pertanyaan kepada Muslim A. "Kenapa Muslim B membaling batu?" "Apa masalah Muslim B?"

Ini lah yang seringkali berlaku, kita sering gagal dalam menggerakkan pertanyaan. Jika situasi yang melibatkan dua pihak, kenal pasti dahulu siapa mangsa dan pemangsa. Jika Muslim B yang membaling batu, kenapa perlu bertanya Muslim A? Tanyalah pada Muslim B, mengapa dia berbuat demikian. Bukankah itu lebih tepat. 

Samalah juga situasi yang berlaku tentang pemakaian HIJAB. Jikalau nak tahu sebab muslimah tidak berhijab, tanyalah pada mereka yang berkenaan. Bagi mereka yang memakainya, sebabnya sudah pasti kerana menuruti tuntutan syara', kerana takutkan Alllah.